Category: Tarbiyat e Aulad

Question #15965 :

Alam sahib aoa,meri baetti matric mae hae age 15 year laikin wo lakh samjanae kae perda nahi kerti mujae btae m kia kroo please mairae swal ka jawab zaroor dae.thanks thanks.yawar ali

Question #15964 :

Salamunalaekum,My son is studing in english school.1 march ko uski school me dance hy.rozana practice kara rahe hy me apne bete ko mana karti hoon k dance na kare aur teacher se kahe k dance nhi karna hy.koi bhi bahana kare k per me taklif hy.magar sochti hoon k istarhan bete ko bahana karne ki talim me khod derahi hoon.me kya karon kis tarhan is mamle ho handal karoon kya dance karne doon.ya nhi aur mera beta bht ziddi bhi hy aur chid chida bhi bht hy usse gussa bhi bht aata hy baraye maherbani jald hal bataye.Allah hafiz

Question #14646 :

molana sahab salam,muje kuch sawal pochne the, aik to ya k hum ne bbc news ma suna tha k iran ma orton k lia university ma kuch subject parhne par pabandi ha, un subject ma english, science or bussiness shamil ha to kia ya sach ha or agar aisa ha to kun,hamare mujtahdeen ne us par koi fataw dia ha.
dosra sawal ya ha k jo amar bil maroof nahi anal munkir k steps ha , kia ya apni bewi par bhi apply hote han maslan , bewi apne shohar sa baland awaz ma bat kare ya , use lift na kare , ya us ki ijazat ka bagher ghar se apne ma bap k jai,ya koi gheebat waghira kare,chote bachon ko agar un k walid alim banana chate han to 9 sal k bache k lia kahan se shoro karen kon se kitab use parwayen

Question #13924 :

Salam,allha ap ko sahet de (AMEEN)this is my 2nd Q ? My children going to english school i have two son and two daughter my both daughter going to school with hijab.but there is each week one day school give music class and music is haram then what i do because i listen majles from maulana hasan sadiq from pakistani scholar he said if like this condation you ask to school that subject try to droping from course and you is not allow then you change to school .please give me good soulation BECOUSE HERE is all school is like this and I move other country.Also i need for my children any contact and webside they learn basic islami dars.
thank you.

Question #13908 :

salam aga sahab mera beta alhumdulilah 2 saal se upar ka hai aur is age me bachay umooman ziddi aur chirchiray hojatay hain me koshish karti hun k usay samjha kay aur ppyar se har cheez kahon albatta kabhi zaroorat parhnay pe danti bhi hun lkn sakht ravayaa ikhtiar nahin karti na karna chahti hun jab k meray husban boltay hain k ye sar pe char jaiga,kabhi apnay araam kley khud uski adaat kharab kartay hain masla mobile de dena aur kabhi uski is zid pe usay bhat danttay hain.husband k samnya me usay ronay deti hun aur jawab nahin deti thori der me wo khud chup ho kar ajata hai lkn husband us pe cheekhna chillana shuru hojatay hain jis se dar k wo bahir chala jata hai.husaband ne mujhya gussa kya k tum isay maaro,aga sahab ne nay unkay samnay apnay betay ko maara jo k me nahin chahti thi aap batayin me kya karun.har bacha is age me zid karta hai lkn wo robot chahtay hain aur ab mujhay marnay ka kahtay hai.plz rahnumai karen.
2) bachay ko khel ka doran agr meri waja se lag jai masla meray hath se slip ho k gir jai me pakr na sako aur usko lag jai ya cycle ko push karo aur wo gir jai to diad deni paregi.
3) is age k bachon ki roohani zarurat kaisay poori ki jai inhen kya taleemat di jain aur achai ki taraf laya jai 4( mobile aur tv wagera jab bachay baron ko dekhtay hain kheltay huay to zid kartay hain agr abhi khelnay dya jai to agay chal k inki adata pukhta hojaigi aur rokna mushkkil tar hoga kya kya jai k wo baron ko dekhay lkn zid na karay aap se bharpoor rahnumai ki umeed hai tafseeli jawab enayat farmaya shukrya.

Question #13907 :

salam alaikum moulana, mera yeh sawal hai ke mere do{2} nawase ek 17saal aur ek 15 saal.dono acha padtethe magar abb padneka naam nahi lete. meri betiya aqal bolito dono maawo se ladte hai. meri betiya ka sahara wohi hai.kharab dosto ke sohbat me hai.Moulana aap se yeh guzarish hai ke aise dua farma-e-ye ke maa padh sake take dono ko padne ka khayal aaye.Baraye mehanbari hamari madad kejeye hamara waqt bura hai, khuda wo 14masumeen aap ki bhi madad kare.aap ke jawab ka muntazer. khuda hafiz.

Question #12270 :

mera beta 10 years ka hai lekin hamari bat nahi sunta hai …..namaz nahi parta hai aur waladain ke sath, behno ke sath battamizi karta hai…hum samjhate hai lekin nahi sunta…hum kya kare…….roza porerakhta hai ab aap muja batai ke mai kai karoo uske accha aqlak ane ka liya mai bhoot pareshan ho gai ho isko waladain ke bare me kuch bataia take isa koch toufiq mila pleas

Question #11487 :

sllam ka sath arz hai ka bachey ka haqiqa kis umer tak kar dana chiey or traiqa wazhat ka sath batain. Or mara ik or aham sawal ya hai ka sir mari shadi ko 5 saal ho gaiy hai or alahh ka fazal sa mary 2 batay hai mara akk beta mari saas na rahk lia hai or uss ki parwarish ka zima unho na lia hai magar who uss ko galth guide kar rahi hai uss ko hum sa bi milnay nahi dati ya batin ma is position ma kia karo ma na to apni tarf sa un ka sath bahlai kari thi ka un ki dori kahtm ho gi magar ab iss thara ho rha shariat ka hukam kia hai ?wazhat ka sat batain ap ka sukria wasllam

Question #11469 :

kia 31 year k lerkay ko 37year k aurat upna baita bana sukty hai,or bilkul baitay he k terha us ko upnay saath bitha sukty hay?kia in dono k dermian koi maa baitay k seeghay bhe perhay jasuktay hain?fiqha ke ro say jawab inayet fermayee, shukria.

Question #11418 :

Bismi Ta`Allah

Salam,

Q. Disobeying parents it becomes the reason of dishearting and teasing them is forbidden and HARAM but if one is facing or having HARAJ (MASLA -e- HARAJ) in obeying them or if obeying them will ultimately lead to leave or oppose an obligatory order of God then what should the person do? should he obey the parents in the above two conditions?

Wassalam o Elykum