Category: Aadab & Akhlaqiyat

Question #15054 :

What should I do when my parents insist me to accompany then for a dinner in Hindu family (even after knowing that it is unlawful)?

Question #14532 :

Assalam-u-alaikum,Maulana Sahab my question is regarding my mother. I am a shia but my birth mother is sunni and phillipino. I was raised by my second mother who is a shia,she was the one who taught me about the shias. My birth mother is against me being a shia and we Have had countless arguements on my being a shia.I currrently live in Pakistan and she is in Jeddah.I visit Jeddah yearly for my Iqama renewals and meet her too. But apart from that i m not in contact with her. My father keeps me informed about her but i dont speak to her. I have tried talking to her but whenever we talk she starts blaming me for whatever went wrong with her life. She used to hit me and verbally abuse me as well. She has no interest in me. My step mother has always guided me and asked me to always be good to my birth mother no matter how she treats me. In such a situation, what are my duties to a mother who didnt raise me only gave birth to me. If she doesnt care if i talk to her or not, what are my duties?Apart from visiting her once a year, should i talk to her through emails?If a mother is wrong and not on the correct path then it is not our duty to follow her. So paradise can be reached through a pious mother. Am i supposed to follow my birth mother or step mother? Which one has a higher status.?Kindly help me as i want to know my exact duty towards her.

Question #13944 :

men muazrat khuwan hoon ke men monday ya tuesday kay baja e hafte ko sawaal kaaraha hoon magar yeh janna jald az jald zaroori hai islye aj puch raha hoon.aj kal bare baal logon ko kuch pasand nahin larkon ke to kya kiya jaye aur walid ko bhi agar pasand na ayen jab ke men janta hoon ke walid sahab aik, baap ki nigah se zyada,islami niah se zyada ana parasti ki nigah se dekhte hen aur aksar kuch islami haqeeqaton ka inkar bhi kardete hen faqat apni ana ki bina par jin men usool e deen ki haqeeqatain bhi shamil hen aur woh khud bhi takreeban kisi islami furo ko anjaam nahin dete aur haraam amaal men bhi mubtila hen to kya aisi halat men bhi mujhe yeh chahiye ke men sunnat ko chor kar un ki baat manun ya kya hukum hai aur agar hosake to yeh bhi arz kardijiyega ke kis tarah un ko behtar se behtar ki taraf raghib kiya jaye?shukriyah

Question #13779 :

Salaam Alykum,
1.Nafila namaz ko miss karne ki surat mein kia sadqa/fidya diya jata hai k hum uske badle kuch sawab hasil kar le?
2.school mein bacho ko english literature mein aesa fiction ya stories parhai jati hai e.g shakespear k plays jo mukharib ul akhlaq hai jin mein ishq o mohbat ki kahniya hoti hai,kia class 9/10 k bacho ko aesi cheze parahna chaye?kia hum unko advise kare k kia sahi aur galt hai phir parhne de school mein ya allow na kare?? jazakallah

Question #13638 :

salam..alim sahab..mojy apki madad chayei te…kafi arsa pahly..kohch rakm chori ke to mana apny rahstdar say jo kafi passy vala ha ohsy abi tak pata nahe..ma ya pasy vapes karna chata hon..kaya vo rakm ma kasi ghreb or mohtaj ko da sakta hon k savab ohsy maly? q k ma apni chori zaher karna nahe chata per pasy ohsy lotny han kaya ma kasi joht ka sahra be la sakta ho ohsy pas dany k leya..koyi tareka bata day..allah ap ko jazy kaher day

Question #13242 :

Salam, Janab mera sawal previous week bhi ye tha k SILA-E-REHMI ki bohat takeed or fazilat k bawajood woh kon say log or rishtay dar hain jin say qata taluq ka hukm hain ? please answer in detal … thanks

Question #13039 :

Asalam-o-Alikum!Mulana Sahab please jhoot ke limitations ko detail mai example k sath define kr dejye.Aur please jhoot k critical points pr bhe roshni dalye.Thanks!

Question #13012 :

Asalam-o-alikum Maulana Sahab.Maira sawal aap say ye hai k kisi k baray mai ye khna k falana shkhs bohot matlabi hai,dhokay baz hai, kanjoos hai etc kh daina bhe ghebat mai aata hai?

Question #12648 :

waledain ka farz aulad ke liye kya hai??/.aur aulad ka farz waledain ke liye kya hai….??

Question #12647 :

walaidain ki khidmat karna aulad par wajib hai…lekin betiyon ko khidmat karna ka maukha hi nahi milta.kyuki woh toh shaddi kar ke chale jate hai……toh hum ye sawab s bhi mehroom hai…..toh hume kya karna chahiye???

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